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Is your aging parent making one of these money mistakes Canadian experts call a red flag?

Close to 477,000 Canadians aged 65 and older are living with diagnosed dementia, and almost 10 more people are diagnosed every hour, according to the Public Health Agency of Canada. Long before any of them gets a diagnosis, the first sign often shows up in a bank account, not a doctor’s office.

A parent who has never missed a hydro bill in 50 years suddenly has a stack of unopened envelopes on the counter. Or the opposite happens: the same bill gets paid twice. Families tend to explain these moments away as a rough week, or just consequences of aging.

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However, Christopher Liew, a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) and Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) charterholder who writes for Blueprint Financial, told CTV News that money habits are often the earliest warning sign of cognitive decline — and the stakes keep rising.

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Here are five money mistakes worth watching for in an aging parent, and what Canadians can do before a slipping memory turns into a financial crisis.

What actually counts as a warning sign?

The clearest tell is a break from someone’s own baseline. A Johns Hopkins-led study published in JAMA Internal Medicine found that people later diagnosed with dementia were more likely to have missed bill payments up to six years before diagnosis, and to develop subprime credit scores up to two and a half years earlier — well before memory symptoms were obvious.

A parent who has run the household books with precision for decades and then racks up a late fee or mails a payment to the wrong company, has changed — and change is what families should be watching for, Liew says.

The fix does not need to be complicated. Move recurring bills to automatic payment while a parent is still capable of setting up the arrangement themselves, so the system is already running if things get harder later.

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Why is sudden generosity a red flag?

Loss of judgment does not always look like confusion — sometimes it looks like generosity. Large cash withdrawals with no clear purpose, a run of gift-card purchases or money flowing to someone the family has never met are common patterns, according to Liew. Declining judgment can leave older Canadians more vulnerable to romance scams, fake investment pitches and gift-card requests, which are notoriously hard to trace or recover.

In fact, investment and romance scams are two of the most common — and costliest — scams across the country. Of the $704 million that was lost to reported fraud in 2025, $351 million was via investment hoaxes and $63.3 million from relationship scams.

What does confusion with accounts look like?

Forgetting which bank holds a registered retirement income fund (RRIF), phoning the same branch three times with the same question or handing a debit card and PIN to a neighbour “to save a trip” indicates something more serious than an off day, Liew notes. These slips can expose a parent to both honest mistakes and deliberate exploitation.

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Why can a joint account make things worse?

Many families add an adult child to a parent’s bank account, assuming it will make bill-paying easier if something goes wrong. But according to a guide from the Federal/Provincial/Territorial Ministers Responsible for Seniors Forum, anyone named on a joint account can withdraw money at any time without the other holder’s permission, and those funds may never be recovered.

If a parent’s decline is later confirmed, disputes can arise among siblings, since a remaining holder may need to prove withdrawn money was a gift, not part of the estate.

What should Canadians do now?

Capacity to sign a power of attorney is a legal question, and the definition of mental capacity varies by province. Without a valid, up-to-date document in place, a family may need to apply to court for the legal authority to manage someone’s finances, which can be time-consuming and expensive, according to the same seniors’ resource. A power of attorney lets a trusted person step in without going to court, though the exact rules vary by province.

The practical move: get documents signed while capacity isn’t in question, keep a copy accessible and revisit banking arrangements before a crisis, not after. For families noticing these signs, a conversation with a financial institution, lawyer or family doctor can help determine what safeguards fit.

None of these signs, on its own, mean a parent has dementia. But repeated changes from someone’s own financial baseline are worth a closer look, and the earlier a family acts — with automatic payments, a documented power of attorney and open conversations about accounts — the more choices everyone has. Waiting for a diagnosis to make these decisions usually means making them under worse conditions, with less money and time to course correct.

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