How to have 'the talk' with your teens — the money talk, that is

“And I try to teach my own kids, you can't just leave the lights on because that increases our electricity usage [on] our bill or, you know, just those little tips to add to how they're thinking.”

Parents are increasingly having financial discussions with their teens — who are becoming income-earners and learning how to manage their own money themselves.

Breaking the stigma

About two-thirds of parents and teens report that money is one of their most talked-about topics in the past six months — second only to the pandemic — according to new data from U.S. fintech company Greenlight.

Ninety-seven percent of parents also said they believe financial knowledge and skills are necessary for their kids to achieve life goals, and 93% of teens agreed.

“Money has traditionally been a taboo topic, and that’s why it can feel uncomfortable discussing it, even among family at home,” Jennifer Seitz, education content lead at Greenlight, told Money.ca in an email.

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“It’s important for teens to know the personal finance basics so they can be prepared for financial independence in the future. That includes topics like planning, smart spending, saving and investing, and even credit.”

Teens may face financial anxiety as well

The Greenlight study reported that gas prices and inflation were the biggest financial stressors for parents and teens — followed by interest rates, taxes, stock market volatility and student loans.

Canada’s inflation rate spiked to a 31-year-high of 6.7% in March. Dhanji says parents should discuss the rising costs of everyday products and services with their teens and use real-life examples, like the cost of gas over the years.

He suggests there’s an opportunity to cut back on the little things, like making your lunch at home instead of buying takeout, or taking public transit instead of purchasing a car.

Seitz adds that many teens may also be working at a part-time or after-school job, which means they need to learn how to manage their income as well.

Dhanji teaches “Dollars and Sense” at elementary and high schools, and speaks at colleges and universities about financial planning. He says peer pressure and social media can play a major role in teenage spending.

“When you're a teen, you just want to fit in … [Try] to help them understand that they don't need the latest gadget, or name brand clothing … and down the road, they’re going to be in a better financial position to do more with their money.”

Teens need to be financially prepared for the future

“As teens get older, they begin thinking more about their life after graduation and are making decisions about college, careers and financial independence,” says Seitz.

Dhanji advises that teens set up a Tax-Free Savings Account (TFSA) as soon as they turn 18 and save up funds for future goals or expenses like their education.

“With my son, I've tried to ingrain that things are getting more expensive, to write your goals down,” he says. “And eventually, if you have enough savings, you'll be able to buy a condo and start home ownership. But, savings have to start right away.”

He suggests teens write down their income and expenses and use budgeting tools so that they’re conscious of how much they’re spending.

A 2021 Greenlight survey also found that 86% of teens are interested in investing, but nearly half haven’t invested because they don’t feel confident, or their parents don’t know how to get them started.

“Like any potential investor, teens should know the level of risk they are comfortable with for their money, because it is possible to lose it,” says Seitz. “It’s safer to spread money over a variety of types of investments.”

Dhanji recommends teens get their financial advice from a reliable source, like FP Canada, as opposed to social media platforms like Reddit and TikTok.

How can parents start the conversation about money?

“I recommend starting early, doing some basic budgeting and teaching them a little bit about cost and that they have to be aware of what things cost because without having proper savings, it's going to be really difficult to meet their goals.”